My husband, the woman: The private anguish of having a spouse in transition After 21 years of marriage, he gave me the news. I still have my ex's guitar plectrum, I dont use it but he gave it me years ago. we exchanged presents. But the true nature of gender is hidden by a mythology that gives it a false objectivity: Gender isn't just social, but is firmly grounded in biology. This doesnt mean that you must do without lovely earrings though. (but the only difference is that my sister was NOT a beauty queen!! Unfortuately I have let them grow up because of work but the other day my wife came to me and asked if I would get my ears pierced again. There is no extra cost to you! Thanks for the comments. !ooooh..oooohand how hysterical of you to tell your sisters boyfriend that she was out on a date!! "My God," he My little sister could not tell, because she did too. MY FANTASY COMES TRUE. But back in the early '80's I had a pair or two of stone-washed 'baggies' in a very blue blue color and another in a brown with some rust stripes. Did You See February 2023's Throwback Thursdays. Update: Im now getting together with a lovely woman I first fancied 25 years ago.She likes me wearing earrings and nail varnish (which I do - currently Japanese company RMKs Taro Horouich Navy). After all, they're made to touch your most intimate regions, what could be so uncomfortable about three inches of padding squishing your chest into your rib cage and a literal string between your legs? When I look at women, the first thing I often notice is their piercings. !And my sister?Wellshe looked like SATAN!HAHAHAHAHAHA!Thanks for dropping by, Jeff!Have a FUN weekend!P.S. by Clyde5412 Thu Sep 08, 2022 1:18 am, Powered by phpBB Forum Software phpBB Limited, Talk about the latest trends, Your fashion disasters, other peoples fashion disasters, NAy for me, but everyone with their own taste right. . They also allow you to set the mood for your face. I KNOW you'll find some great deals!! He''ll be wearing a plain platinum band and that''s it! Our Concierge Professionals will help guide you on your search by answering questions, directing your to resources, and connecting you with our trusted vendors. Come on, darling, let's go If you are going to pierce your ears, do them both. Sometimes the fastener goes crooked, so you have to bring it back to where you can see it so that you can get it aligned correctly again. Privately, I have I bought some vintage Zig Zag perm rods many months ago and was eager to try them out. It''s some weird freak of nature thing because I''m ultra conservative. Worse than that, his genitals were quite hairy and this looked far too masculine. by JHAWK Fri May 01, 2020 4:18 am, Post I have no regrets about getting my ears pierced, other than regretting I didnt do it sooner. Although she still has a lot to learn herself, she is enjoying teaching new crossdressers tips that will hopefully help them on their adventure. I have your blog on my blog list too!OMGI actually DID catch my sister doing MANY things when we were kids, but I never told my parents. Hook earrings are the main reason I decided to get my ears pierced. ronnie: Oh hahaha. After my last feature article about going braless, my boyfriend was still in disbelief that "cute" undergarments could be uncomfortable. They are for you to fit on me. !YAAAY!It's SOOOOOO wonderful seeing ya, dear lady!Thanks for stopping by!Hey listen, I TOO don't always get to stop by everyone's blogs, so please.no worries. CHAPTER ONE. gasped. Thus we have the Cuchini, a device for the ladies designed to hide cameltoe when they're wearing bathing suits. I think wives should support their husbands more and if they did then I know that husbands would support their wives more. Yesterday was my 53rd birthday, and like so many men who read the postings on this thread, I have always wanted my ears pierced. LOLjust some childhood memories which I'm glad you sharedThank you :D. Greetings Shionge~Welcome!Thanks for dropping by and taking the time to leave a comment!I think I've seen you over at Daves blog before, so it's nice to meet you.YESsome childhood memories come back to HAUNT us!Tee, hee!Please stop by anytime, you're always welcome here!Enjoy your evening! Just reach behind the ear, pull the lever back, and slide the wire out. Below are a few pictures that are links to eBay, where you can buy the earring if it fancies you. !And I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO happy to see that you're back!I know MANY of us are!Hope you had a wonderful break and that you got the quiet time you wanted.Thanks for stopping my TWIN!Have a FUN weekend!X, OMG.Dianne!!HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA! I understand it if you are reluctant to have your ears pierced! That was what I meant by wrong circles, but I didnt want to sound rude. pharmaceutical company, I decided we needed our sex life to be enhanced. I'd forgotten how much I LOVED that film!Anwyayaren't the earrings to DIE FOR?? Hellooooo Mel! In my opinion, if you want the look of hoops, you are going to need pierced ears. My god, to be not even two years old and able balance himself in heels, is AMAZING! Alternatively, some use a screw to tighten the earring. 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My husband has pierced his ears too. would come when you were willing to wear a corset. This morning I went into the mall, and to Clairs and in about 10 minutes I had my right ears pierced. So one night he wore a pair of my jeans to work. My wife has resigned herself to the fact that I wear it, but doesn't really like it. I saw no unsavoury Brits with football shirts and beer bellies, but plenty of different styles including earrings for (straight) men. Howdy Jeff!Thanks bud!OMGand you're SOOOOO right, my face looked like a freaking tomato with earrings on!! There is no need to apologize for your English. by Clyde5412 Wed Sep 07, 2022 2:13 am, Post One man says: "I think a girl should wear whatever she wants and keep whatever she wants from whomever she wants, but if she starts saying an ex gave her this piece of . My wife of five years moved her lips close to one of my ears. Here are a few choices for hoop earrings to consider, or click to see a full listing of hoop earrings from eBay. ?I've been offline for most of the day, because I wanted to spend the afternoon walking around outside in all this FREEZING weather we're having. !I use to smoke my mothers cigarette butts in the ashtray! She always used the excuse that since I am a professional, earrings would hurt my practice. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. FI wears little platinum hoops in both ears. wear skirts so short they dont cover her clitty, have her dresses and skirts pinned up at the front to expose her clitty or. Then proceeded to do her sibling's other ear. All started by a nigth event organized by a couple of friends for a costumed party with " you and its opposite". by Kd7b Tue May 15, 2018 2:10 am, Post Lever Back fasteners are very commonly used for hoop earrings. Not yet. You made me laugh tonight..and I knew you would. raised to a higher level. by Minion99 Sat May 19, 2018 8:27 am, Post The fact is that unlike yesteryear, many men pierce their ears today. Welcome to my blog! Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. It happened in winter 2015. Anything else looks ridiculous. Nope, he''s ulta conservative. Rene said will get them redone for Valentine's day. I'VE MISSED YOU GREATLY! I can almost imagine a smug and self satisfied expression on her face.Oh; didn't we hate "tattletales" as kids .I bet you were hot in those hoops, and babe ! I had no idea it would go on so intensely and so frequently. Read more about Sami by clicking her name. So it isnt the society that is holding you back, its yourself. Scooba Shiny_Rock. What I like about it is that I feel it is more secure than the stud fasteners. I had talked about my interest to my wife for years - she sort of seemed disinterested or said "well if you want to". I got an idea from some of my Pinterest pictures of some humiliation ideas. I think its wonderful youve been so understanding and embraced it the way you have, but you need to get a bit stronger and tell him you need to talk about it or the marriage is in trouble. We are on our own and Please don't let me get your hopes up incase thats not the case. The best thing about hoops, in my opinion, is that except for the huge ones, nobody looking at you is going to think they are out-of-place on you. I also have a Prince Albert pi*r*i*g and also have both nipples pierced. He refuses to discuss it, other than saying he needs to do it and agrees we need to talk about it, but just not yet. Many guys in this forum will really envy you, with a lady who positively encourages you to get both ears pierced. I cant remember why it didnt happen back then, but Im pleased to say that it did happen today! I think these are ideal crossdresser earrings. There are several advantages to having a cross-dresser as a husband: A crossdresser integrates with his lifestyle two different best of gender personality, meaning he can effortlessly associate with any gender. ~~~~On August 4, 2007 I married my best friend~~~~. He and I both have very conservative, classic style, except for this one thing. It took me a couple hours to read the whole thing. by guest-pat Mon Aug 14, 2006 8:31 pm, Post Did You See February 2023's Jewels Of The Weeks? Hope you're having a vunderbar Sunday!It's FREEZING here right now, so I'm going to spend part of the day walking around the city enjoying every single minute of it!!! As well, there are many women who LOVE their boyfriends/husbands with earrings and actually encourage them to get their ears pierced. They also used to love it when granny would sit and let them make her up - I thought they were budding make-up artists but no such luck!Have you got your own earrings now? I thought this would then give me the opening to broach the Guest22, go for it. by Kd7b Mon May 14, 2018 8:28 pm, Post Still, I thought my grandma's pick of TOMS boots, cuffed jeans, a loose sweater, and colorful scarf was absolutely adorable. Isn't that disgusting? MY WIFE KAREN. Shortly after, having stretched the holes a bit, i managed to get some 4mm gauge, square ended, double flared plugs in the holes. by Clyde5412 Tue Sep 06, 2022 3:58 pm, Post This thread is archived New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast 42 101 Hi Sammy, Officially, she's been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of his fetish. It was a set of jewelry, consisting by Shriv123 Wed Sep 07, 2022 1:38 pm, Post Obviously I'm not wearing my engagement or wedding rings any longer but what is the feeling on wearing other jewelry from an ex-husband? by louise P Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:20 am, Post I say if you want to do it, who cares how old you are. They're a TAD larger than the ones I tried from my mom, but I think their ok for 2009!HAHHAHAHHA!Thanks for stopping by to let me know you're back, Barb!I'll be making my blog rounds later this evening, so I'll be seeing ya soon!Have a fun weekend!X. ;)I've got some old pairs of high heels you can have because they make Mimi's feet too hurty. And I knew at that EXACT momentI would one day be a makeup artist, because I kept telling her that her eyebrow pencil was UNEVEN.Tee, hee!Thanks a bunch for stopping by today, my friend!Enjoy your weekend!X. Stud fasteners work exactly the same on hoop earrings as they do for the smaller stud earrings. The townie mall is having a sidewalk sale, and I haven't raided THEIR after Xmas clearance sections yet! by Guest Tue Aug 15, 2006 12:12 pm, Post !Hope you had a nice rest.And you're so welcome about the award. by happy girlfriend Mon Jul 31, 2006 5:55 pm, Post This type of fastener is highly recommended for some just starting with hoop earrings. That's it! So a BDSM thing called Kali's teeth is fairly self-explanatory. He has dresses,. by Piercedpapi Sun Sep 04, 2022 6:53 pm, Post It may not display this or other websites correctly. LY! Well that's a couple of months on from my last post and I still have all four piercings in each ear! It was quite a bad scene recently and tensions with some of his family are a bit high right now. 1) Webisode series with me (even with his buddies from college mocking him) 2) Dad Generations (he wanted to start a Dad blog!) i found your blog today and its a really lovely one, thank you for doing it! Use vaseline on problem earrings: Here's the trick: you peroxide your earrings then coat them with Vaseline, put them in and wait. by Brian 2 Fri Nov 04, 2005 11:00 am, Post It's like you came to work one day with a different haircut: people notice, but only in a background kind of way. Laid out on the table was a pair of handcuffs, a leather dog's 2 reviews of Argentum et Aurum "Every piece of jewelry I buy from here instantly feels like an heirloom. Forty-seven years old and he has to explain himself to a family that should KNOW how amazing he is. Either the closing mechanism didnt look good, or it didnt work well at keeping the earring in place. That happened after I asked him to pierce them. ", Blushing, I In addition, I think it is daintier looking that the lever backs. i am 41 male and have always wanted pierced ears. Did you like this article? )Don't you LOVE family DRAMA? According to the manufacturers, the Cuchini is meant to cover the ridges of the mons pubis area, providing a smooth and camouflaged appearance. I am 40 and wear an earring in my left ear. Then about three years ago, I decided that enough was enough and started to wear steel studs. Nope, I don''t think I ever even dated a guy with earrings. *****************************************. An example is something as simple as a dot or a single gemstone. I would have planted an atheletic jock in my sister's pocket as my mother was about to do the wash. Then who would turn red?So you wore mother's earrings when you were small we all did that my friend. It may sound odd to stop doing something you love just because your spouse disapproves, but for my husband, earrings are a complete turn-off . "It's crooked!" the former nursing student cried. But why the collar I have tried a couple of clip hoops and found them very unsatisfactory. at last told you my fantasy. When I switched jobs a few years ago, I didn't wear earrings to the interview, but after checking out the dress code, I started wearing them on my first day of work, and I received no negative feedback. Although they arent as easy to use as lever backs, I really like the French lock. She liked the look. Ok first off, I don't know if this is a hot topic or what not but I don't know where else to post this. ", "That sounds like Hoops come in a variety of metals, sizes, and even shapes. Although I havent tried the magnet approach myself, I imagine it is quite possiblethe magnet can dislodge without your knowledge. You are the one making that link. "People who possess great qualities, do not need to show off". I must say after a while these style of earrings do pinch and become annoying. When I wore them, I was a frequent customer on eBay. I have the same problem as my wife does not like guys with earrings. You are in the right place if you want to know the answers. He then asked me for nail varnish which I let him have. I suspect he's hesitating for a number of reasons, some of them societal and some of them based on his fear of ridicule from buddies at work and so on. When that happens, it can just fall off. Bryan has shared his style . Now tell me did you ever do anything to get back at sis? On vacation about a month ago, I mentioned to my wife that I was going to start wearing me earrings again, and wanted to get my right ear pierced. More From Women's Health. I am now thinking I should perhaps buy him more female clothing to wear for bedtime. Dec 21, 2006 #13 No.. June 24, 2009. !YES, you're rightI think my sister WAS enviousbecause I look much better in SILVER than she does!HAHAHAHAHAHA!Heyand your 19 month old DOES sound like a GENIUS! Mulder would FREAK OUT when he saw it.Stop reading your blog? He should show you as much consideration as youve shown him. What I meant was this: (it was that costas reference the only Costas I know runs a bookshop in Athens). It's best to laugh through ityes. No earrings on my hubby and he never wants to get his ears (or anything else) pierced. Now, every minute he's at home he's in a black slip, stockings, suspenders, bra (with false breasts) stilettos, lipstick and earrings. Because you have responded so well and are enjoying the sexual side of things he thinks hes been given the green light to do it whenever he pleases which is all the time. It is so feminine! I am sure that with a lot of practice, one could really come to love these. I think I should stop but I don't know how (it's so nice on me). by Alpha Male Mon Feb 21, 2022 9:23 am, Post See more ideas about crossdressers, feminized husband, house husband. Hello Minion99, so glad to hear that all is going well. Something went wrong, please try again later. by Bombi Sun May 21, 2006 10:39 pm, Post by Guest Wed May 24, 2006 11:03 pm, Post !HAHAHAHHAHAHA!Yea, I'm discovering through this post that MANY boys did the same as children!Seethere is no such thing as NORMAL!?!?! It might be exciting now and a novelty, but it might lose its thrill if hes dressing up every time you make love. hubby is very proud to be non-pierced and non-tattoed. The only thing i regrett is that i didnt did it earlier Black Hoop Earring with Cross for Men Mens Jewelry - Mens Dangle earring - Feather Earring for men Cool earrings collections for men Mens Jewelry 2020 by carlotta Tue Aug 01, 2006 6:04 pm, Post I think I still have a few earrings in a box somewhere in my apartment.Thanks for stopping by today and sharing in my little secret, buddy!Hope you're having an awesome weekend.It's FREEZING here in Philly!YEPPPE! I understood every word! I feel bad about doing this, but I was just trying to assess the extent of what was going on. However, there are several disadvantages: I think clip earrings are a great way to become accustomed to wearing earrings at first. by LeatherWendy Sun Jun 07, 2020 4:37 pm, Post Unfortunately, my wife has never been receptive to the idea. Sometimes the little attachment starts to get loose. by Newly Pierced Thu Aug 24, 2006 3:16 pm, Powered by phpBB Forum Software phpBB Limited, Talk about the latest trends, Your fashion disasters, other peoples fashion disasters. Hello. Having said that, you must understand that with clip earrings, your choices are much limited. I have had my ears pierced for over two years, and I have yet to have a negative remark. my husband has always been on the fem side and over the yrs has gotten super fem he has had his ears pierced his long hair has highlites and curled most days and loves wearing cute decorative bobby pins in it hes wears makeup everday get facials at the salon as well as manis and pedis with polish usually a french or red, i made him start carring Just over two years ago I wrote that I was going to move up to four piercings in each ear. According to my MIL, my husband went through that phase when he was around that age. Plus some hair on his chest which showed on the low cut dress. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Here is also a link to eBays current listings for studs. admit I have had dreams of you being tight-laced, but never considered the day These are more likely to get caught on something. It was a bit of a stretch to get them in, and now the holes have reduced to the size of the middle part of the plug they are quite unremoveable - which is exactly what I intended. by MetalEd Thu May 14, 2020 8:22 pm, Post We also may change the frequency you receive our emails from us in order to keep you up to date and give you the best relevant information possible. They are a safe option for feeling girly without drawing attention to you. The most obvious reason that stems from childhood is rebellion. And there always will be those who like men's earrings, and those who do not like them. When you are travelling on your hols in Europe,do you see many Italian/Spanish/French men with ear piercings ?. I wore my earring regularly for about 20 years. "You know!" She said, breaking the silence that had been enveloping us for the last couple of minutes. All of the action is behind your ear, so you cant see what you are doing. !You're so sweet!Thank you dear lady for sticking around!!! Meanwhile, her daughter had finished the first ear on her younger sister. ive had them done 3 times at claires but always removed them soon after. Over the years, I have had a variety of reactions from people. Two hoops of about 1 inch. For me, getting the wire lined up with the hole while also stretching the hoop is next to impossible. You go for the understated look with some small studs or look glamorous with some long and slinky earrings brushing your shoulders. (I don''t even have MY ears pierced.so I can''t imagine if my guy did). I love crossdresser earrings that use hooks to fasten them to my ears! "I dare you to put him in dresses. by suzzie76 Mon Aug 01, 2022 8:59 am, Post ?HAHAHAHAHA!I also have a piercing in one of my ears, and one of these days I should see if I can still get an earring in. I am over forty and work in a conventional workplace. by longstayer Fri Aug 05, 2005 7:36 pm, Post He lives and works in the financial district in NYC - most men in that part of town do not wear jewelry. He wears his plain platinum comfort fit band and a Tag Heuer watch. Joined Jul 25, 2005 Messages 13,368. F. FTMdueinapril. !Nowyou wouldn't have any dangling earrings I could borrow, would you?HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!I'm such a silly man!OHand about my sister?Well..one day I promise to share a post about how I tried on her fishnet stockings and TORN a hole in them by accident.ummmwell maybe it WASN'T an accident! by Paperclip_40 Sat Aug 06, 2005 9:02 pm, Post I got my ears pierced in 3rd grade My mom had the COOLEST earrings and 70s clothes Too bad we didn't know each other as kids we could have played "dress up!!" They gave us a TREMENDOUS discount 3 times a year and even with THATI still couldn't see spending the money on a Chanel leather wallet!?! For me, I had looked at this site for quite awhile and looked at other related sites. are not expecting any visitors today, so you can wear them all day. Hello. Katie Jewelry. subject of my fantasy. ?Tee, hee!Thanks for stopping by Mel!Happy Friday to ya!X, I call you killer cause you slay me!!! Besides enjoying her time with her family and working as a web developer, Sami loves to travel, make home improvements, and create jewelry in her spare time. by Lookout Thu Aug 03, 2006 11:27 am, Post *grin* Ya missed me, didn't you?Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! If you came on here asking for advice on how to deal with your boyfriend who wants you to stop wearing a pair of earrings, you would be told that he sounds controlling. Lots of guys wear two earrings. by Mac Fri Jun 05, 2020 5:09 am, Post I once got a fake Ferragamo headband. And I actually think it's GREAT!As ALWAYSI thank you for dropping by and sharing your wonderful energy and WIT!You ROCK!Have a FUN weekend!X, HOLY SHIT ANNDI!! Your email address will not be published. Originally Published: Feb. 28, 2020. That would be a BIG no for my FIhe''d never wear earings, necklaces, etc. I have been dreading telling you because you might Etsy also has a good variety of handmade and vintage clip earrings. Hi, I'm Ron. A few months ago I noticed my husband had begun colouring in his little finger with a sharpie pen. At first, your husband will probably get turned on by the idea of trying on your panties. ?HAHAHAHHHA!Thanks for stopping by Leesa!Hope you had a GREAT weekend too!X from Philly! by Alpha Male Fri May 29, 2020 2:41 pm, Post It would be marvelous to be subservient to my husband's demands. Feel free to read my About page, where you'll discover more about me. Yup! You are a gem!And nothing wrong with a little "experimenting" when you're a child, right?? I am 16 years old, french nad have had my both ears pierced a yaer ago. Stud earrings are where you get started when you get yourears pierced. guys get pierced and have fun, let him do it, n thn if he feels like a t*** afterwards he can take them out, simple. He says hes not gay and doesnt want to be with men. You are afraid to admit he is more of a wife than the husband." "You expect him to come to work in a dress!" "His job is one a woman could handle.". Well to my surprise it fit him great and he looked really cute in it. One of the best ways to maintain control over your girlie husband is to control her clitty and pussy and humiliate and feminise it. My last few hols were taken (in reverse order) in Lake County FL, Capri, Maleme (northwest Crete) and W. California various places down US1. :O What a sweet face you havebeautiful eyes, dear Ron. Third, you have to feed the wire into the little hole at the end of the hoop. Well, my sis was on a dateI had 8 sisters. Female Empowerment and the Rise of The Gentlemen Escort. He is finally becoming himself but I am more lost than ever By. After being my wife wants me to have both done . Do what you want! You know ME.Mr. Penguin!I also watched a movie this afternoon. by guest 22 Sun Jul 30, 2006 2:26 pm, Post NEVER! Hi I had my left ear pierced about twenty years ago I have not worn an earing for about four years but the hole is still open. by Footman1 Wed May 24, 2006 12:15 pm, Post Good Evening Dearest Gypsy-Heart!OMG!!!! With practice, it becomes a lot easier. stories I have read it's always the man who imposes these ideas. Im really happy with them and have been wearing all four pairs all weekend while wondering why I didnt do this sooner. On his return in the evening he puts on lingerie as soon as hes in the house. I'll bet your face looked like a giant tomato, and your evil sister probably had a shit eating grin from ear to ear. I really like the look as does my wife. Your email address will not be published. First, you have to keep the wire in your earlobe. I had a single pi*r*i*g in each ear for many years, though pressures (real or imagined) meant that this was a private thing - I hardly ever wore anything in them in public except where I knew I wouldn't be recognised. by Gina-G Sat Feb 03, 2018 6:01 pm, Post I don''t think that look goes with the suit and tie dress code!
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