Ill blink and its 1am. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. OH! So, you can imagine what kind of connection this still is. He makes me breakdown so many barriers. Its like that alcoholics anonymous quote of acceptance of who you are thats why its not good for people to judge other people because they are not and never understand how to live in their shoes. I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. Cause he had to be free. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. This is the house of Venus and Taurus, so there will also be some jealousy and protectiveness of each other as well. We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. The 12th House is also known as the House of mystery while Venus symbolizes intuition and artful communication. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. Some are just hung up on their exes. Take the love goggles off. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. The moment we talked I felt like I knew him since always, and when started shring some details it was like we had the same growing up, same ambitions (my Sun is in Aries, his in Capricorn). I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. Possibly. Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. All of the guys whom I'm involved above have stellium especially benefic planets in my 12th house. All we can do is hope for something good in the future! such beautiful love, they put it behind the scene. GOD-awful!! He might love you but in his own way. Anyone else care to share? Whats the deal? From there on, things never became the same anymore. His Venus is trine my Mars. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. which is terribly disturbing for anyone who doesnt want to face things. It's as if nither of us are ready to let go fully. It may not display this or other websites correctly. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, romance, values, and finances. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! Even when on partner likes the other one partner would not want to be seen with the other person for whatever reasons as in maybe wanting to keep their option open; definitely a "behind the scenes" situation. or I fail? I would love to here anyone's feedback. The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). Your email address will not be published. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. Venus in 12th entirely depends on how well both people can handle Neptune. You need some fire. His Venus is also conjunct my Pluto and we also have Venus square Venus. Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. That said, I do know something about this. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. JavaScript is disabled. Just count your blessings for the dance you experienced, and move on to someone/something new. I remember I was passing by a tall guy, and in a quick thaught, I thaught: this one looks very handsome. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. Hi, Name Again. You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. Very confusing . But when I'm around him, it's like a physical stalemate. Only because I feel his Mars in my subconscious,yelling at me to do better and not understanding that I dont respond well to that. Years ago i was dating someone whom i had the same aspect with. He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit. It's such a surreal feeling. It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. The water faucet with no shut off valve, lol. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . Does that sound reasonable with his neptune being in my 12th house? It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. Just not every second. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. Any help would be greatly appreciated.p.s., any planet people willing to share their experience with their planets in someone's 12th would also be appreciated, As far as who feels what.. it would make sense they both would feel it since one persons planet is being housed ( in a environment) therefore the planet is being influenced also by the house person in their approach and the others is bringing the energy influence. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. Sign up here! His sun falls in my 8th and his moon in my 12th where my sun is. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. Hes very affectionate and cuddly. Im also worried he is using me on many levels and though his words and actions say otherwise, I feel that this is at least partially true. Plus we both have gemini suns. This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. We are from different countries. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! I actually feel I treated him wrong although he was a person whos been there for me when I was going through the hard time. Or they saw things in us that were not really there whether good or bad. Yah, that 12th House synastry . This person also has natal Neptune in their 7th house and MY Neptune falls in their 7th house. My Mars,North node and Pluto(in my DC) conjunct his Uranus and Saturn in the 1st house. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. His Mars is conjunct my Moon and North Lunar Node which made it all the more compelling; his Neptune/Scorpio (which is Retrograde) is conjunct my 5th House Venus, and his Uranus and Pluto fall in my 3rd House where my IC is. Same here. , Hey I would like to know more about the 12th house synastry I have my bfs Venus Jupiter and I think another place landing in my 12th house but my sun sign, Mercury, and Jupiter are all in the 12th house so idk if that has a lot to do with why its so easy to connect with him because I read and obsessed over a secret relationship but its way out in the open all over social media on both side and his family knows all about me and my family knows all about him Im just so confused like yea sometimes Im thinking hes not telling me all his feelings but I feel like I know him on a deep level and then I feel like I dont like he seems too good to be true it makes me automatically not want to trust him .. hmmm. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). Sometimes in teh beginng this house can be overwhelming for some becasue it's like you can see into each others soul. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. Hmm idk all of this is confusing.. now I will admit we do mirror each other a lot and both get mad at each other for things that we both do because we both know what the other one is actually doing its kinda annoying I see a lot of things about myself in him .. we have a baby on the way we both work super hard and always together I had an astrologer tell me I probably wont ever meet his family and I met them all and also in another state same for him so Im confused with this, Sometimes 12th house synastry is easier if you have strong Neptune placements or 12th house placements because your more familiar with it. that is my unrecognized trait of doing and having doubles 2 of this, 2 of that 2 of the same clothes articles, 2 of the same type of lifestyles, apartments . If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? It lasted for a year and we functioned well in the one-on-one, but had trouble integrating it with our lives. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. My Neptune is in my 10th house in Scorpio and since I guess I'm what they would call a "Pluto person" since I have so many (5) planets in my 8th house, maybe that would mean something? In synastry, composite, transits, solar returns.always the bringing the worst. So we became " friends" . My north node in Cancer in the 12th conjuncts his venus and mercury. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. No idea if I appear in his?! He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. Uck. ouch ouch! These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. What do you think? This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. Im not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. W. hen someone's Venus falls in your 1st house, that person probably finds you physically attractive. I can feel his worries and I always know what to say. To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. Mine lasted for nearly 3 years amid a ton of torment, aching for his love, trying to understand the hostility, the mental/spiritual abuse, trying to help him .. all SORTS of goodies/1 In the end, it was me that jumped ship; who needs that kind of nonsense in ones life? I just recently met someone by accident online (a learning site.) I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! His Venus squares my Vertex. I trust everything happens for a reason! They may support you financially. Should I run now?? With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. Its really SOMETHING, and at times its like being on a roller coaster ride. i also met someone else in between all this somewhere who also had venus in my 12th who i had a lot of weird occurences with. The feeling that I am the only one dealing with the 12th house issues is so painful. Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. Two+ years in most cases (which makes me want to just go HIDE in my bed under the covers, lol!) It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. How do you reckon you and him approach 12th house matters like spirituality, illusion, Neptune stuff? And it is hard and painful for a physical person like me. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. Ive cut our contact channels. Lol. I dont think I can give a uniform answer as to how planets behave in the other persons 12th house. He left few weeks after we met for a travel for six months. My heart tells me he secretly feels the same way, but the 12th house can have issues of delusion, so only time will truly tell. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. Me and my fianc has this. The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes. Not without good reason, psychic and spiritual connections are not all that common, but they show us what exists beyond this physical world. My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. Its vague, wet, murky and the fog is dense, we need to rely on our intuition, but our intuition is skewed here, so what is one to do? What activity do you have going on between your S.O. He could not and cannot change . We work well together and it is always professional. Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. we are creepy to them, but cant seem to let us go. didnt dream of them either. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. It's probably love bordering on obsession. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? Never felt this way in my life. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Wowza:) Mars conjunct Mars and Sun conjunct sun? Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! I promise you a guy who pursues you is a far, far better fit. Now, I broke off the friendship and he can't contact me. Hi, Elsa!! Hey! I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. Trish how did you get over it!?! Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. I started with an other guy, who is really good for me and is a good match. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? maybe it was some inner knowledge of how he is deep inside. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. But we fell in love, got divorced from our previous partners, came out at work, moved in together, got . That 12th house is a tricky one, and both charts would be helpful in sorting through all that. Oh . In all cases this is really karmic moment. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships.
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